Supporting all who care for elders
A Shattered Hallelujah A shattered hallelujah is now my song of praise Its notes are all the sweeter when my voice can barely raise. Arms outflung, He calls to me to walk among the waves To trust beyond what’s […]
The Small Miracle of the Broken Read More »
It wasn’t the best of mornings. I had ten minutes to blow dry my hair, change my shoes and get out the door. At that precise moment, my puppy discovered the enticing, dangling toilet paper, and ran with it in his mouth through the house. The other end was still attached to the roll. I
“I have no choice” Read More »
Families can be the best aspect of our lives, or the worst, or somewhere in between. The reality is that if families aren’t functioning well, or one member isn’t, becoming a care partner will make this more difficult. Rather than fighting, dysfunctional families will often stay away from each other, having as little contact as
As words go, it’s not one of my favourites. Deterioration. “The process of becoming progressively worse.” 1 Eww. Sounds like mouldy bread. The reality of life is, deterioration happens to all of us adults. I used to be able to walk farther and run up a set of stairs. At one point in my life, I
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I saw laughter. I saw whirlwinds of activity. I saw smiles and happy tears. I saw hugs and milling crowds and eating–lots of eating. I saw all these at work today. But I didn’t see helplessness. “An Elder-centred community creates opportunity to give as well as receive care. This is the antidote to helplessness.” Eden
The Family had a Party Read More »
Have you ever listened to your mind? Mine was a tornado of wildly whirling thoughts as I stood waiting for the train this morning. Here’s a tiny peek inside my brain: The renovations are starting today on my basement. Have we removed everything? Will they go smoothly? Will they be done by the time I
The Small Miracle of Listening to Birds Read More »
We all know that some personalities don’t get along well. There’s the person with the loud and flamboyant personality to your quiet, introverted one. Or the one who is the heroine of all her stories, who makes you want to scream. What about the one who always looks grumpy to you? Or someone who is
When You Can’t Make it Work Read More »
Everyone’s journey is different, but here is one I see frequently. Diane cared for her husband all their married life, and became a care partner the day he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease. She read everything she could find about the disease, and related topics such as the side effects of the medications. She watched
Connecting with Staff Read More »
Just because “receiving gifts” is last on my list of love languages doesn’t mean I don’t like them! More than any other love language, this illustrates how they mesh together and depend on each other. If your main gift is quality time, a gift has more meaning when
The Love Language of Receiving Gifts Make a Gift More Than a Gift Read More »
“I don’t feel normal. I don’t feel like me.” As we talked, I asked her what she felt “normal” was. She told me about a time when she could do everything for herself, and used to run church groups. I asked my friend how long ago that had been, and we agreed it was about
Care Partner Wednesday–What is Normal? Read More »