Supporting all who care for elders
“She’s dehydrated.” The hospital nurse’s tone spoke volumes and her message was clear. The resident we sent to the hospital was suffering from dehydration on our watch, so obviously we gave terrible care. The judgement was in her voice, the look on her face and the stance of her body. I wanted to punch her. […]
Care Partner Wednesday–“But I Don’t Drink Water!” Read More »
When George came to us, he’d spent several months in the hospital. A tall man, he looked severely undernourished. “He’s a small eater,” his wife said. That’s when I discovered his diet in the hospital consisted of sandwiches his family brought in and his favourite chocolate bar. I opened the drawer of his nightstand to
“But I Love Chocolate Bars!” Read More »
Do you remember trying to encourage your toddlers to eat broccoli? I dared my son, “I bet you can’t eat a whole tree.” He’d stuff it in his mouth and munch away, and I’d pretend to faint with the wonder of it all. When he got older that ploy didn’t work, and I tried to
“But I Hate Broccoli.” Read More »
In celebration of my 300th blog, in the month of October I will be featuring a series called “Who is A Care Partner?” Each week, I will interview a professional care partner. Different responsibilities, nationalities, and perspectives, but one thing in common–a heart for elders. This is the third in the series. When Lillian talks
Who Is A Care Partner?–Lillian Read More »
“I want some chocolate ice cream.” My co-worker, Melissa was startled to hear this. Paul was at the end of his life and had lost all interest in food. Although he could still swallow, he hadn’t had anything to eat or drink for several days, and staff had been instructed not to offer anything. Melissa
Comfort Feeding Only Read More »
When Bill was dying of heart disease, I didn’t know he was dying. He was palliative and nearing end-of-life, but I didn’t understand those terms, and no one explained them to me. Perhaps because he was only 55, every medical person was full of hope until all hope was gone. One disturbing symptom was when
When Food Is No Longer Possible Read More »