Elders caring for others is a radical idea.
I know, because I had difficulty researching the topic. No matter what words I put in the search engine, it took me to ways to care for elders. Elders contributing, caring, volunteering and giving is unheard of.
Let’s change that.
Elders already care for others in many ways, and if the “others” (caregivers, children, grandchildren, friends and the community) realized this and looked for more opportunities, we would all benefit.
Let’s start with “able” and “somewhat able” elders, and look at those more physically and mentally challenged next week.
Volunteering
“You worked all your life. Now it’s time to have fun!” I like fun as much as the next person, and I appreciate the freedom retirement brings in terms of my schedule, but it’s important to me (and most seniors) to give back. Volunteering brings a wide range of opportunities to do so.
Volunteering has so many benefits.
- keeps you active
- provides socialization
- gives a sense of purpose
- improves mood
- it is even shown to help you live longer!
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ecause the pandemic started immediately after I retired, and because I have mobility issues, it took me a while to find the right fit for volunteering. I believe in the local food bank and the work it does, but I physically couldn’t be helpful. I explored other possibilities, but none seemed to fit until I heard about an opportunity to help at church preparing the materials for Sunday School each week. Creative, divergent and fun, I got to know people and contribute in a meaningful way. It was and continues to be perfect for me.
Jimmy Carter founded Habitat for Humanity in 1984. This unique organization helps people become a part of their own answer as they work with others to build their own house. Even when he was 95, former president Carter continued to help with this endeavour.
When I worked in long term care, a resident who was a former nurse volunteered to sit with the dying who had no family with them. Another pushed a cart full of books down the halls each week, and delivered fresh reading to those who were interested. Another ran a tea party each Saturday. Even though they needed some care, they were able to give.
Volunteering has no upper age limit, and endless variety. From going on a missions trip and helping to build a school in a foreign country to knitting hats for preemie babies, there are opportunities for all.
Second Hand Care
Do you know a caregiver? You may not be physically or emotionally able to care for their elder, but you can support them. Perhaps you could make a meal, send a card of encouragement or give them an hour off to do some errands. Or offer to run the errands. Pick flowers, bake cookies, give them a gift certificate for a meal out and offer to stay. Those who give care need to know that they are seen and appreciated.
Community Opportunities
A community near where I live bursts into bloom every summer with hanging plants and planters lining the main street. I drive that way as often as possible to fill my senses with the beauty. Those flowers are planted, maintained and pulled in the fall by community volunteers. If you are a gardener, that may be perfect for you.
Are you an animal lover? Every community has volunteer openings among their shelters. There are often opportunities to foster pets.
What about a helpline? Training is provided for this important service, and it’s an incredible chance to make a difference.
Whether you are in perfect health and physically able, or have some limitations, opportunities exist to help you give to others. When you find the best fit and can give back in meaningful ways, your life is filled with purpose and you enhance the lives of those you serve.
Next week:
Reciprocal care for those less able.
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