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How to be Your Best Physical, Emotional and Mental Self in 2026

   “What are the best supplements for someone just diagnosed with Alzheimer’s?”      Great question.      As I began to research, several cautionary red flags rose in me. There are all kinds of products online making all kinds of claims. I don’t have medical training, so shouldn’t be giving medical advice. Many supplements […]

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How a Simple Christmas Can Be Special For Your Elder

    Sharon looked at the bins of Christmas decorations and already felt overwhelmed. “Christmas ornaments.” “Front Porch Decorations.” “Christmas Village.” She loved it all, but wished the Christmas fairies would come in the night and put it all up for her. Caring for her mother took a lot of her time and energy, and

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How to Maintain an Elder’s Routines While Adding Some Christmas Magic

In her caregiver journey, Sharon discovered that routine was king.       In the mornings, she brought her mom a cup of tea in bed after she woke. Then Mom got up, used the washroom, washed herself and brushed her teeth. Once dressed, she ate breakfast, and often had a nap in her chair. Later

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How to Find and Celebrate the Person Behind a Dementia Diagnosis

My parents both had many siblings, so when we got together for a family picnic, the aunts, uncles and cousins were everywhere. We’d gathered at a local park, and plates of salads and desserts filled the wooden picnic tables. One of the uncles stood barbecuing hot dogs nearby. Happy chaos ensued.      Until it

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Looking Beyond a Dementia Diagnosis to the Person

My children refer to it as my “goose phase,” and it’s embarrassing.      I’ve always been a fan of the country look. Cozy, lots of wood and crafty decor. In our first house, I had the opportunity to decorate how I liked it. When everyone else went for the straight lines of Scandinavian furniture

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Quality Of Life Can Be Tricky in Your Alzheimer’s Journey

Floris, who was care partner for her husband, arranged an event she thought might be special for him. He “walked with Alzheimer’s” and had always been a baseball fan. He had a specific team he loved, and although it was challenging, she wanted to take him to a game when his team played in town. 

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How to Lower Your Risk of an Alzheimer’s Diagnosis.

     When my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in her mid-fifties, the disease and all that went with it was a huge cloud of doubt to me. It was 1975, and not as much was known about the disease. There weren’t the supports for family, and we didn’t have the internet to do research.

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My Mother Was Diagnosed With Alzheimer’s. What Do I Do Now?

     Sometimes, when reading a novel, I come across a character who develops Alzheimer’s. Or their mother does. Or they’re a witness to a murder but are discredited because of their diagnosis. Maybe it’s my sensitivity to the subject, but it blows me away how often Alzheimer’s and other dementias show up as a

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Practical Ideas for Elders to Give Care

    Sometimes reciprocal care takes a little work.      Operation Christmas Child is a wonderful program of Samaritan’s Purse. Special boxes are packed for children of various ages with items like clothes, school supplies, small toys, books etc. They are then distributed by the organization to children who would otherwise not receive a

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Your Elder Has a Gift to Share with Everyone

 My most poignant story of reciprocal care happened the day I came back to work after the death of my husband. It’s a story I’ve told before, but thinking back on it still brings tears to my eyes. I knew that first day would be gruelling, Part of me wanted to find a place to

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